Monday, September 29, 2008

relationship 101: Do's and Dont's

"Ang mag-assume, TALO (kahit 2% pa yan)."
"Kung ayaw may DAHILAN, kung gusto may PARAAN."
"Wag masyado magpadala sa text."
"BACK OFF (as in back off!) sa mga IN A RELATIONSHIP, kahit saan anggulo mo tingnan, ikaw pa rin ang mali ."
"Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you."
"Hayaan mo siyang gawin yung gusto niyang gawin. Buhay niya yun, hindi mo maco-control. As long as alam niya yung limitations niya."
GOLDEN RULE: "Don't do unto HIM what you don't want HIM to do unto you."
"Take it slow... Steady lang..."
"Maniwala sa IT'S COMPLICATED na status. Hindi lang chenes yan."
"Learn to LET GO kung alam mong wala na talaga."
Don't stay because you think, "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. Sometimes guys mistreat you because you allow them to... Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you...
"Keep your DIGNITY."
"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
"Wag magselos sa siblings and relatives ng boyfriend/girlfirend mo."
"Ang QT (quality time), at least 5 hours lang per week."
"Don't revolve your life around him. Learn to be independent."
"Hindi dahilan ang TIME."
"Kung ayaw sayo ng kapatid, hayaan mo siya. Wala siyang magagawa kung mahal ka talaga niya."
"Wag magpakilala sa parents agad. It can affect your relationship."
"Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Kadalasan tama ito mga girls..."
"Be nice to your EX. Wag maging BITTER."
"If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you, as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. At some case this is applicable...
"Wag magpadala sa SITUATION. Baka overwhelmed ka lang."
"Wag maniwala sa BF, baka later on, sabihin niya "I LOVE YOU SISTERLY." - di ko toh gets ah!?
"Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Paminsan-minsan take off your helmet."
"When you meet anyone, remember it's a holy encounter. As you treat them you will treat yourself. As you think of them, you think of yourself. Never forget this, for in them you will find yourself or lose yourself."
"Hindi balakid kung magkaiba ang RELIGION niyong dalawa."
"Kung kayang I-workout, I-WORKOUT!"
Kalokohan ang reason na "IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S ME."
"All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street."
"Learn to forgive para magkaroon ka ng peace of mind."
"Some can forgive but can't forget."
"If something bothers you, speak up!... mahirap kapag nagpapakiramdaman lang kayo."
"OPEN COMMUNICATION, TRUST AND HONESTY are the most important ingredients in a relationship."
"You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship pag hindi kasi, it can affect or even ruin your relationship."
"Ok lang na magselos, basta yung pakilig lang."
"Always have your own set of friends separate from his para may iba kang channels that is without him... diba?"
"Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted."
"Always make time for your family and friends."
"You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary."
"Always make time for yourself."
"Wala yun sa tagal ng relationship... nasa pagmamahal (haruuuuy...)."
"There's NO SUCH THING as MR. RIGHT. It's how you mold him to become rightfully for you."
"There's NO SUCH THING as COOL OFF/GRAY AREA. Kung white, white! Kung black, black! Walang GRAY AREA..."
"Always think a number of times before deciding on to something important."
"There's a possibility that a person can get attracted to another. It's human nature. It's not wrong. But that is why you're in a commitment, you discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and its ok. As long as, you don't nurse the feeling and do something about it. Borderline between cheating and faithfulness. Recognize reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you get for the cheap thrill of attraction."
"You need to let go of the past to have a future...(ICE AGE 2)."
"Do not take anyone for granted."
"If what you see by the eye doesn't please you, then close your eyes and see from the heart. Because the heart can see beauty and love more than the eyes can ever wonder."
"If you felt it, then it was true. Getting hurt doesn't always mean you suffered, it also means you loved sincerely. Don't frown because it's over... SMILE BECAUSE IT HAPPENED."
"KARMA (whatever you do) will find its way."
"Everything will fall onto place."

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